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Letting Go of Dad Guilt: How EMDR Can Help New Fathers Heal
Becoming a father is one of life's most profound transitions—but for many men, it also opens the door to unexpected feelings of guilt. New dads might find themselves haunted by thoughts like: "I'm not doing enough." "I should feel more connected to my baby." "I missed the birth—I failed my partner." This kind of emotional weight can interfere with confidence, connection, and well-being. And while many people associate Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR) with
Micah Shapiro
Mar 94 min read


Why Does Taking Time for My Interests Feel Wrong Since Becoming a Dad? Therapy for Dads and Guilt
Before becoming a dad, having interests felt normal —necessary, even. You worked out, played music, watched games, built things, or disappeared into a hobby that helped you reset. Then the baby arrived, and suddenly those same interests feel… wrong. Selfish. Indulgent. Like something you should have “outgrown” the moment you held your child. If this sounds familiar, you’re not broken. You’re experiencing a kind of guilt that many fathers carry quietly—and Therapy for Dads is
Micah Shapiro
Feb 175 min read


Why Do I Miss My Pre-Fatherhood Phase--and Feel Guilty Admitting It?
Becoming a dad is the happiest moment of your life, they said. You'll love your child and do anything for them, they said. And they're not wrong. Looking at your newborn's tiny face is unlike anything you've ever experienced before. Maybe you've longed for this your whole life. So why do you suddenly miss your old life? Things were so simple back then, and so free. No need to schedule your social life around naptimes, or even schedule it period. Your friends were alwa
Micah Shapiro
Feb 36 min read


Why Can’t I Shake the Fear After Our NICU Stay? How Postpartum Therapy for Men in Des Plaines, IL Helps With Lingering Trauma
Everyone expects relief once your baby is discharged from the Neonatal Intensive Care Unit (NICU). The machines are gone. The beeps have stopped. The plethora of doctors and nurses whirling around your baby while s/he lies vulnerable in an incubator has disappeared. Finally, you can hold your child in your arms instead of watching helplessly from the sidelines while they’re being intubated or put on oxygen. You’re home. Everything may have “turned out fine,” at least on paper
Micah Shapiro
Jan 205 min read
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